Thursday, October 27, 2011

You belong to...

I am sure you must have heard the quote " YOu are unique" many times over. And of course the sarcastic after thought "just like everybody else". Humans are unique in their desire to fit in and at the same time stand out. Throughout the animal kingdom, individuals of a species are very similar in the way they look. The thing that differentiates them is the individual behavior. Like in a flock of geese, they all look the same at first glance. It would be very difficult if not impossible to tell them apart at first glance. But then if you look at the flock long enough you will notice subtle differences amongst them. And they are noticed because of their distinguishing behavior traits. You notice the ruffian who breaks out of line. You will notice a fighter picking a fight with anyone willing to take him on. And so on.

Humans are obsessed with classification. There's nothing wrong with that. I mean that is what helps us make sense of the myriad and complex world that we live in. But the trouble is this classificaiton also extends to other humans. Just look at the number of zodiac signs, personality tests, physical shapes, religions, nationalities, races etc.
There are twelve zodiac signs each based on the period in which an individual is born. Suppose you read the traits of each of them without considering your birthdate, you will find that some of the characteristics apply to you. And this is true for most people. I have nothing against Zodiac signs or any other form of classificaiton. But I feel each person is truly unique. Just because you are slightly in decisive or slightly round at the edges doesnt make you a Libra or a Apple Shaped Body Person respectively. Each person is a complex and unique blend of different characteristics and the proportion of these is dynamic. Its ever changing and is shaped by desires, circumstances and other people around.
So you truly are unique. All the systems are just ways of helping other people understand a part of you and help them make sense of the insanity in the world.
So, you are classified into the category "YOU". And that's that! 

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

A Thought

A poem written by me as I was thinking about things and life...Hope you like it.

A Thought

One day as I awoke,
And looked back at Life,
What had I gained and what lost,
Spare a thought said my mind.

Spare a thought for the time spent,
Of shattered dreams and broken hopes
Of friends forgotten and friendships lost
Spare a thought said my mind.

Spare a thought for tears unshed,
And a thought for words left unsaid,
Spare a thought for the good times,
Spare a thought for the nursery rhymes;
Spare a thought said my mind,
For childish dreams and sweet nothings

Spare a thought for the life you have lived
And live it like you thought you did.
Spare a thought said my mind.

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Born Wild...Born Free

Have you ever wished you could fly like a bird

Have you ever wished you could scamper like a deer
Have you ever wished you could buzz like a bee
Have you ever wished you could run like a cheetah
Have you ever wished you could roar like a lion
Have you ever wished you could swim like a dolphin
Have you ever wished you could sway like an elephant
Have you ever wished you could rule like a tiger
Have you ever wished you were born without a care in the world... born wild...born free....

Monday, April 11, 2011

Raindrops falling on my head...

What is it about the rains that makes us so happy? It was a hot hot summer day. The whole day it was alternatively clouded and sunny, as if the rain gods were tormenting and teasing everyone with the promise of rain. Then suddenly towards the evening, when one had all but given up hope that its going to rain, there was a huge rumble of thunder and the skies just opened up. The aromatic smell of water falling on the parched  earth and pavements filled the nose. It was utter and sheer nostalgia...
People everywhere :some enjoying the rain, some running to get out of it, children dancing in the rain,  the traffic on the road squishing and splashing along, fresh vegetables, the trees swinging in the rain, some bent with the weight of the water...Everything new and fresh with a new lease of life. Everyone laughing and chatting away, no frowning faces, no anger..just happiness and joy. Got to love the rain! It just washes all the negativity and cares away and only leaves love, laughter and life behind.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

You know you grew up in the 90s if...

A very nice email I received. Thought I should share it. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I did! :)

You Know You Grew Up in India in the 90s When…

1) You know the words to ‘In-pin-safety-pin’ and ‘akkad-bakkad’ by heart
2) Cricket is almost a religion for you, and you idolize at least one of Rahul Dravid/Sachin Tendulkar/Saurav Ganguly
3) You have read at least some Chacha Chaudhary or Tinkle comics
4) You’ve watched Shaktimaan on TV at least once in your life. And you can immediately recognize the character when you see him.
5) You watched corny dubbed versions of Small Wonder, Silver Spoon, and I Dream of Jeanie
 
7) A visit to Pizza Hut used to mean a special treat
8) You have seen Kuch Kuch Hota Hai and Hum Aapke Hain Kaun at least 5 times each
9) You still remember the theme song of Hum Paanch. (Hum Paanch, Pam Pam Pam Paanch!)
10) You have played hours upon hour of running and catching, chor-police, lagori, saankli, ‘Doctor, doctor, help us!’, ‘Lock and key’

11) Dog ‘in’ the bone was your favorite co-ed game.
12) You collected trump cards of wrestlers, cricketers, and airplanes, and did not quite understand why your younger siblings were obsessed with Pokemon and the other Japanese trends that followed.
13) Your summer vacations were often synonymous with visiting your grandparents or cousins
14) Bole mere lips, I love uncle Chips!
15) You know the song ‘Made in India’ by Alisha Chinai


16) You have seen many many many episodes of ‘Antakshari’ on Zee TV and know the only thing constant in the show is Annu Kapoor.
17) You were the coolest thing in class if you had a computer in your house while it was still the 90s.
18) You couldn’t wait to start 4th standard so you could start writing with PENS instead of with pencils!
19) You often used terms and phrases like ‘two-say’, ‘same to you, back to you, with no returns’, and ‘shame shame, puppy shame, all the donkeys know your name.’
20) You most probably saw Dilwale Dulhaniya Le Jayenge at the cinema at least once. You also fantasized about singing songs in mustard fields as in the movie.


21) You have said ‘haw’ or ‘yuck’ when you saw people kissing in English movies. (nowadays kids are used to it!)
22) Titanic was your FIRST favourite english movie.
23) You thought seeing English movies and speaking English made you the coolest thing ever.
24) You remember the Gujarat earthquake very clearly and could possibly tell everyone EXACTLY what you were doing when the earthquake occurred (yes, this happened in 2001, January 26, 2001, to be exact — but this group is about the things that Indian kids that GREW UP in the 90s remember and identify with).
25) Barbies for girls, and GI Joes for boys were the ultimate status symbols. You just wanted more more more and more. And how can I forget Hot Wheels, for both boys and girls?

26) You thought ‘imported’ clothes were definitely way better than ‘made in India’ clothes (never mind that a lot of clothes brought from overseas by NRI relatives were actually made in India, before ‘Made in China’ started appearing on EVERY existing thing)
27) "Jungle Jungle Baat Chali Hai Pata Chala Hai! Chaddi Pehen Ke Phool Khila Hai Phool Khila Hai!" You watched "The Jungle Book" every Sunday morning at 9.a.m" and just loved mowgli, bhalu and bagheera. A few years later, you watched Disney Hour, which had cartoons like Aladdin, Gummy Bears, Tail Spin, Uncle Scrooge!
28) At some point or other, cool was your favourite, and therefore, most overused word.
29) You loved licking off the cream from the centre of Bourbon biscuits.
30) There were no Nike, Reebok, Adidas, Puma- Bata and Liberty was the way to go for your sports shoes.

31) You have probably consumed more Frooti in your lifetime than there is oil in Iraq.
32) You bought packets of potato chips for the specific purpose of collecting Tazos. And you had Tazos depicting everyone from Confucius to Daffy Duck to Daffy Duck dressed as Confucius.
33) For the longest time, the Maruti 800, the Premier Padmini, THE Fiat, and THE Ambassador were the only cars you saw on the road, and the Contessa was cool because it was bigger.
34) You would literally jump up in excitement if you ever chanced upon an imported car (Oh my gosh, is that really a MERCEDES?)!
35) You used to Fuzen gum. You also chewed Big (big) Babool and/or Boom Boom Boomer chewing gum. They were bright pink and disgusting tasting, but you loved them for the temporary tattoos.

36) Talking of temporary tattoos, you sometimes had contests with your classmates about who had more tattoos on their arm, leg, knee, hand, forehead, wherever.
37) You thought Mario and Contra were the coolest things ever invented, especially if you were a boy.
38) You knew that having the latest Hero or Atlas bicycle would make you the coolest kid on the block.
39) You can imitate Sushmita Sen’s winning gasp to perfection
40) You have, at some point of time, worn GAP clothes (real or fake) like SRK in KKHH.

46) Seemingly senseless acronyms like SRK, DDLJ, DTPH, KKHH actually make sense to you..
47) You have at some point debated who was more beautiful- Aishwarya or Sushmita.
48) You would watch WWF keenly every evening/afternoon and loved Bret Hart "Hitman"! really thought Undertaker had seven lives and he made an “actual” appearance in the Akshay Kumar- starrer Khiladiyon ka Khiladi.
49) You remember the Nirma girl.
50) You remember the ‘doodh doodh piyo glass full doodh’ ad and also the ‘laal kaala peela, gulabi hara neela classic hai badia bristles wala’ and 'roz khao ande' ads.

51) You grew up reading, if you read at all, some or all of Nancy Drews, Enid Blyton books, Hardy Boys, Babysitters Club, Animorphs, Goosebumps, Sweet Valley series, Judy Blumes, and Tintin, or Archie comics. Because naturally, reading foreign authors made you much cooler than reading Tinkle.
52) Towards the late 90s (1998-99) at least some of us started our Harry Potter obsessions!
53) You absolutely HAD to go to Essel World if you were with cousins! “Essel World mein rahoonga main, ghar nahin nahin jaaonga main!”
54) You watched the Bournvita Quiz contest on TV pretty religiously. The smarter ones amongst you actually took part in it and had your entire school and your entire extended families watch you on it!
55) Maggi 2 Minute Noodles = ultimate snack (and tiffin, lunch, dinner)!

56) If you grew up in the early 90s, you recall the nation’s obsession with Mahabharata on TV
57) In the later 90s, you religiously followed Hip Hip Hooray on Zee. Maybe Just Mohabbat on Sony too
58) You remember parzan dastur sayin "JALEBI!!!!" in the Dhara Ad
59) You eagerly awaited Friendship Day, so you could give friendship bands to all your friends, and get bands from them in return. Then, of course, those with the most bands loved to show them off.
60) Backstreet Boys' "Quit Playing Games" was one of the first english songs that you LOVED!
61) Andaz Apna Apna is and most probably will always be your favourite comedy flick!! "Aila Jhakaas!!!"
62) This list made you smile.


Miss that age, it was sooo awesome!

And I could relate to each n every one of them actually.. fortunate to do so..
J

 



Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Happy Women's Day : A celebration of being a woman!

First of all Happy Women's Day!  I know this post is a bit late, but I was busy with work. Women's Day does not entitle me to special privileges like missing work:P
I was asked by many of my male friends and colleagues, why do you need a special day like Women's Day? Especially in this day and age where women are treated as equals in all walks of life.
And i had one answer , the very fact that we need to justify that we want a women's day entitles us to have one. Jokes apart, Women's Day is a celebration of womanhood. Not that we don't revel in the joy of being a woman everyday, but like everyday is a celebration of life, but we still have birthdays don't we!
It is also a tribute for all the women who fought for our rights throughout history so that we may be free today! It is a day when we must remind ourselvess that it isn't easy being who we are. It is to remind others how much they take us for granted and for us to realize how much we love being tank for granted by those that we love.
It is a day to celebrate beauty and friendship, joy and happiness.

So, revel in the happiness and glory and pride in being a woman. You are truly special<3!